what to expect from me

A ride into my life, hoping it will be of interest to you! I believe that positive energy begins with me and if I can spill it at least one person will be splashed. Life is a journey with ups and downs let us record and share..so here is my journey enjoy!

Sunday, January 31, 2016

Life after the storm



 

Life after the storm
This month blog post shares stories of  perseverance and triumphs. The small light in the midst of darkness  that gives  hope and life after the storm, it serves to encourage, empower and give hope.
In every darkness there is always light, once we find the light, the more we stare the brighter it shines back at us.


Melissa

All my adversities makes me realize that I am stronger than I think. I was emotionally and physically abused for years but at that time of my life it was a lesson, that is why I know I am blessed and is always grateful. Sometimes as I reflect I smile and say thank you father, If it wasn't for your grace and mercy I would not be here today. I would really want to share my trials and adversaries but I won't take you back, reason being I would never want to go back for a second.

My past makes me understand that all I needed then was to believe in myself and have true self worth. I will certainly say that good can come from bad, I am truly happy with the woman I am today.  I will forever keep striving, keeping my beautiful smile on my face. I know that it is my spirit of triumph that let other people believe that there is hope . There were times that I felt that life doesn't make sense but thank God for my two daughters at the time of my darkest hours made me realize that I had them and that's the most important thing.

I remember always reading the book of Job and seeing all that he went through, this gave me a sense of hope and empowerment it made me realize I still have life and need to make changes. In 2012 I ran away from abuse, denial, heartache, sadness, insecurity, lack of love, acceptance, and  low self esteem.

Perseverance Determination Purpose Love Family And Ambition are some of the important factors that kept me from going insane.

I am here today and realize that women see growth and strength in me and I feel overwhelmed at times because I remember where I am coming from how I was the one who was seeking comforting , a listening ear, advice and love. I am here today I still do not have everything I need but I feel accomplished I am truly happy I can't give up because I have people depending on me.

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Happy New Year! Better Late Than Never..

Forgive me my lovely followers, I know I'm late with my new year post, but better late than never!
I hope everyone has landed safely in 2016, and is enthusiastic and forthright with the resolutions and plans.
I am extremely thankful for a new beginning, a clean slate, and another chance to set goals. I am a little happy 2015 has ended, I wouldn't say it was my worst year but I know I will never forget the challenges and rocky roads that the year has presented. However with a big hooray I can say 2015 is behind! 

This year I have decided to free myself of resolutions, instead I hope to use preparation and experience to conquer my goals, by putting what I've gathered in my life course into full use. My advice is to be better planners and executers, learning from all your set backs and mistakes. I encourage those who feel drained and discouraged to pick up the pieces take your life in your own hands and be the creators of your own stories! Also remember that you are only in a race with yourself so stay in your lane and move at your own pace.
With that said, No matter what experience you had in 2015 whether negative or positive I say be thankful for the good and the bad, using the bad as lessons and the good as examples of favor.


Life is different for each person, even though we might face similar challenges and obstacles our stories are different but unique.... below are a few examples of the year a few of my friends had...



2015 for me started and ended on a high note... I had no resolutions but I certainly accomplish a lot this year and am certainly thankful for my blessings.
- Noel


I had a very special year God blessed me with our daughter Morgan who is healthy, beautiful and such a blessing in our lives
- Karla


My year was really good.  I knew the struggles that I was facing and I prayed for the strength to get through them all. Overall I can say that God's presence was on full blast this year.
Not to say he wasn't in the past, I was paying attention this year.  I have hope and remained as faithful as I could and God brought me through
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- Semone


Every year you say this new year is going to be a better one than the previous year. 2015 was just that and some. The year started with a nice surprise for my company and heralded what would be our most successful year to date in many regards. I am immensely thankful for that. We've been going at it for 6 years and 2015 felt like we finally broke the ceiling and were poised to trend upwards. On a personal and professional note there were many valuable lessons learned many of which will inform future decisions. The year felt like a year of revelation and a sort of stepping into a new phase of life and I am excited for what is to come
- Andrew